Prepare Your Buns: If you're using low-carb buns, lettuce cups, or flaxseed focaccia, get them ready according to their instructions. Once partially done, start on the sloppy joe mix. Slice and set aside your cooled buns.
Toast the Pistachios: In a small frying pan, warm 1 tablespoon of avocado oil over medium-low heat. Add the shelled pistachios and toast for 4-5 minutes, stirring often, until they're lightly golden. Remove them from the pan and set aside.
Simmer the Sauce: In a medium-sized saucepan, heat 2 tablespoons of avocado oil over medium heat. Add the minced ginger and garlic, cooking for just 1 minute until they smell fragrant. Stir in the sugar-free tomato sauce, water, crushed red pepper flakes (or chili), your chosen garam masala or curry powder, sea salt, and paprika. Bring this mixture to a boil, then reduce the heat to a gentle simmer. Let it cook while you prepare the meat.
Cook the Meat: In a separate frying pan, heat 2 tablespoons of avocado oil over medium-low heat. Add the cumin seeds and toast for 1 minute until aromatic. Stir in the finely diced white onion and sauté for 5 minutes until it softens. Add your ground meat (turkey, beef, or pork) and the remaining crushed red pepper flakes. Cook, breaking up the meat with a spoon, until it's no longer pink. For a healthier dish, drain any excess fat.
Combine and Thicken: Transfer the cooked meat mixture into the simmering tomato sauce in the saucepan. Stir everything together well. Bring the mixture to a gentle boil on medium heat, then reduce to low-medium. Partially cover the pan, allowing steam to escape, and simmer for about 15 minutes, or until the sloppy joe mixture thickens to your liking.
Finish and Serve: Once thickened, stir in the full-fat coconut milk, apple cider vinegar, and the toasted pistachios. Spoon a generous serving of the warm sloppy joe mixture onto your prepared low-carb buns. Garnish with fresh chopped cilantro and enjoy your healthy, flavorful meal!